At the heart of this work is EMDR, a therapeutic tool I have modified for spiritual purposes.
At the heart of this work is EMDR, a therapeutic tool I have modified for spiritual purposes. In its conventional form, EMDR is used to process trauma. In this path, it becomes something more. It becomes a doorway into the dissolution of the identity you were conditioned into, the false self that has kept you bound to survival.
This process is not about maintaining who you believe yourself to be. It is about letting that false identity dissolve. The roles, the masks, the cultivated performances that once gave a sense of safety begin to fall away. This is not comfortable. At times, it is terrifying. Because when the identity collapses, the security it gave you collapses too. There will be moments where you do not feel safe, where you cannot yet trust what will emerge.
This is the passage of disillusionment. It is the fire every soul must walk through to remember who they truly are.
In this path, you must slowly and surely learn to rely on yourself, not the false self, but the one who has been here all along. And while this is your work, you are not left alone in it. This is why my approach is high touch. With each session comes not only the work itself, but my presence alongside you as you navigate the unraveling. I remain available to you, so that when the illusions collapse and the ground feels unsteady, you are supported.
Because this work is esoteric, it will not be easily understood by those around you. You may not be able to explain it, and you may not be able to seek comfort in the familiar. That is why I am here. To hold the container with you as your identity dissolves, and to guide you as you step, slowly but surely, into remembrance.
This is why I chose the name Kaivalya. In Sanskrit, Kaivalya points to the distilled essence of one’s true nature. It is the realization that beneath the layers of illusion, your being is whole, sovereign, and inseparable from divinity. Kaivalya is the recognition that your soul is not broken and does not need to be remade. It is already part of the whole, a division of all that is. This is what my work leads you toward: the remembrance of your essence, your sovereignty, your divinity.